Fun Ways To Spice Up Your Sex Life - Relationships - Sexuality

Acting out fantasies and pretending to be someone else is one of the easiest things couples can do to prevent sex from becoming routine. If you, your spouse or both of you are a little shy, role playing can help to open the doors to feeling more confident with one another. Here are a few tips to get started.

(1) Keep it easy

The best way to get started is to make it easy for your partner to ease into the situation. You do not need to come up with some elaborate story line or introduce some ridiculous costumes. Whether both of you are a little timid or either one of you has reservations about the whole role playing scenario, it is best to start with something simple and easy for both of you to get into the situation, which is your ultimate goal.

(2) Be prepared

Most people start out a bit shy and nervous with the idea of dressing up as someone else and playing a role. This is mainly due to a lack of preparation. The best way to get comfortable with sexual role playing is to get prepared.

(3) Have a brainstorming session

The best part about role-playing is that there are so many things you can do that are not just confined to the bedroom. Get your creative juices flowing and make a list of things or the kinds of situations that turn you on. Think about whom you want to be, your motivation, the kind of scenario, how you want to dress up and what and where the boundaries and the ground rules are. At this stage, it is important to be honest, sincere and non-judgmental. There should be no laughing at your partner for something he/she says or does.

(4) Narrowing down the choices to what both of you want

Compare your lists against your partner's and decide on what both of you are willing to try. Also decide on what you are not going to try. You can set limits without judging the other person. If you are uncomfortable with anything, do let your partner know.

(5) Setting the role playing scene

Details can help you to get deeper into a sexual role play scenario. When you first imagine a sexual scene, the main points may be enough to get you going, but the more details you can add to the fantasy, the more alive it becomes. Details can also be great for awkward moments when you do not know what to do next. Think about the physical setting, whether it is indoor or outdoor, what time of day is the scenario, are there any other people nearby, and what is the story line.

(6) Choosing costumes and props

Maybe the most fun part of the preparation is costumes. Sexual fantasy role play is a perfect opportunity to dress up and have fun. Once you have decided on who you want to be, think about ways to add to your character and role through clothing and props. Make a trip to adult shops or novelty stores to choose the costumes, accessories and other items to make your role-playing fantasy complete. You can also try any thrift stores for clothing if these shops do not have what you want.

(7) Shaping your sexual fantasy role play character

Now that you know who you are, where you are and what you are wearing, it is time to dig deeper into the sexual fantasy role play character. Think about what is your motivation, what are the things that turn on and turn off and is this character going to be dominant or submissive.

(8) Decide on a good time to act out your fantasy

Timing can ruin even the best prepared plans. Make sure you provide enough time for schedules to be cleared and for other commitments to be fulfilled. This means make a stress and worry free space so that you can have your whole mind on the fun, and not being tie-down with thinking of the hard day ahead. For most of us who work during the week, Friday night is an especially good time because the weekend provides a good buffer.

(9) Set ground rules for role playing

Setting ground rules and boundaries with the person you are going to engage in role playing with is essential. Some of these rules should be common sense and common courtesy such as no laughing at each other, agreeing beforehand the signals or words to let each other know if things are going well or badly and if things do not go smoothly how you want it to stop.

So, go ahead to explore new situations and make it both intense and safe. Fantasy is always fun, if done the right way. If at first it does not work well, try again. Remember that sex is really another form of communication and the more you explore it together, the better it gets.

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Fun Ways To Spice Up Your Sex Life - Relationships - Sexuality

Acting out fantasies and pretending to be someone else is one of the easiest things couples can do to prevent sex from becoming routine. If you, your spouse or both of you are a little shy, role playing can help to open the doors to feeling more confident with one another. Here are a few tips to get started.

(1) Keep it easy

The best way to get started is to make it easy for your partner to ease into the situation. You do not need to come up with some elaborate story line or introduce some ridiculous costumes. Whether both of you are a little timid or either one of you has reservations about the whole role playing scenario, it is best to start with something simple and easy for both of you to get into the situation, which is your ultimate goal.

(2) Be prepared

Most people start out a bit shy and nervous with the idea of dressing up as someone else and playing a role. This is mainly due to a lack of preparation. The best way to get comfortable with sexual role playing is to get prepared.

(3) Have a brainstorming session

The best part about role-playing is that there are so many things you can do that are not just confined to the bedroom. Get your creative juices flowing and make a list of things or the kinds of situations that turn you on. Think about whom you want to be, your motivation, the kind of scenario, how you want to dress up and what and where the boundaries and the ground rules are. At this stage, it is important to be honest, sincere and non-judgmental. There should be no laughing at your partner for something he/she says or does.

(4) Narrowing down the choices to what both of you want

Compare your lists against your partner's and decide on what both of you are willing to try. Also decide on what you are not going to try. You can set limits without judging the other person. If you are uncomfortable with anything, do let your partner know.

(5) Setting the role playing scene

Details can help you to get deeper into a sexual role play scenario. When you first imagine a sexual scene, the main points may be enough to get you going, but the more details you can add to the fantasy, the more alive it becomes. Details can also be great for awkward moments when you do not know what to do next. Think about the physical setting, whether it is indoor or outdoor, what time of day is the scenario, are there any other people nearby, and what is the story line.

(6) Choosing costumes and props

Maybe the most fun part of the preparation is costumes. Sexual fantasy role play is a perfect opportunity to dress up and have fun. Once you have decided on who you want to be, think about ways to add to your character and role through clothing and props. Make a trip to adult shops or novelty stores to choose the costumes, accessories and other items to make your role-playing fantasy complete. You can also try any thrift stores for clothing if these shops do not have what you want.

(7) Shaping your sexual fantasy role play character

Now that you know who you are, where you are and what you are wearing, it is time to dig deeper into the sexual fantasy role play character. Think about what is your motivation, what are the things that turn on and turn off and is this character going to be dominant or submissive.

(8) Decide on a good time to act out your fantasy

Timing can ruin even the best prepared plans. Make sure you provide enough time for schedules to be cleared and for other commitments to be fulfilled. This means make a stress and worry free space so that you can have your whole mind on the fun, and not being tie-down with thinking of the hard day ahead. For most of us who work during the week, Friday night is an especially good time because the weekend provides a good buffer.

(9) Set ground rules for role playing

Setting ground rules and boundaries with the person you are going to engage in role playing with is essential. Some of these rules should be common sense and common courtesy such as no laughing at each other, agreeing beforehand the signals or words to let each other know if things are going well or badly and if things do not go smoothly how you want it to stop.

So, go ahead to explore new situations and make it both intense and safe. Fantasy is always fun, if done the right way. If at first it does not work well, try again. Remember that sex is really another form of communication and the more you explore it together, the better it gets.

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Intensify Your Sex-Appeal and Libido: 10 effective tips - Relationships - Sexuality

This is the old story; you have been married for a few years by now. Sure, you still LOVE your spouse. In fact, you feel that you are as close as you ever been, it is as if you became relatives. Like brother and sister, with the icing of a good old friendship. It feels so COMFY, you can talk about your day, discuss political issues, and you can predict how your partner will react and what she/he would say The only bad thing is - you don't have sex anymore.

This is a sad reality of life for 40 million Americans, who live in sexless marriages, as reported by CNN.

Sex-appeal and sexual desire are very important and are extremely elusive aspects of love and relationships. There are so many factors in our lives that can easily destroy them: stress, money issues, sleep deprivation, and so-on. One day you suddenly realize that you too live a sexless life. How sad. But it doesn't have to be this way, now does it? Sex is a great source of joy and pleasure for loving partners; it is a way to express their love for each other. Undeniably, sexual attraction and compatibility constitute significant part of foundation for a strong, lasting, and loving relationship. Disappearance of this part of a relationship slowly opens the door for affairs, lies, depressions, early menopause, etc. - in essence, if you leave the issue without intervention, it will ruin your marriage.

I will not discuss the palliative role of married dating websites in such situations, since it is not in the scope of this article. My goal here is to state 10 specific, effective tips that will definitely help you intensify your sexual desire and sex-appeal:

Starting from right now think about how important it is to improve your sex live and increase libido. Realize that this is not a dead end (yet), that you can better the situation.Make your bedroom a sacred place. Move your TV and PC out of your bedroom.Get rid of your old comfy PJ. Buy a sexy night gown.Twice a week have a glass (a glass!) of red wine. There is a study by University ofFlorence that proves that red wine (moderate consumption of it) significantly increases Female Sexual Function Index - an extensive survey of sexual arousal and satisfaction in women.Love your body. If you need to get toned - do it! Exercise! Love yourself! Find the time for yoga or aerobic, or whatever you like best in order to improve your physique. It will swiftly boost your self-confidence, even if the results of exercising will become obvious for everyone in a few short weeks.Try different, new for you ways of love-making, add some spice in your sex life. Entertain the notions of buying sexy lingerie and costumes, sex toys, and videos. Make it fun, not a routine.Allow yourself to think about your sex fantasies. You do have them, be honest with yourself! This is what you will share with your partner and fulfill together.The strongest, powerful weapon that will help you, even if you will ignore all the seven tips above (this is why I have listed it at the end), - Strictly Pheromones.Buy pheromones for both or at least for one partner.You may want to buy Pheromones for Men if a woman's libido is low and vise versa. Pheromones work as a natural, potent libido and sex - appeal enhancer.With ageing you may have lost a lot of lubrication that causing painful intercourse and making it more difficult for you to have an orgasm.Visit Bazar @ DatingAdept.com that offers a variety of vaginal lubricants, dietary supplements, and other products designed to enhance libido and sex performance. You can buy here nice, sexy gifts for each other.Read one more time the nine abov e tips and think how you will implement them in your life If you feel it's too much work - find an attorney and get divorced, because if you don't think your partner is worth the efforts, - you simply don't love him/her!

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My American Horror Story Video Game Wish List - Entertainment - Video Games

If you've listened to a Dead Pixels Podcast in the last 3-4 months you're fully aware of my totally normal obsession with two things: Skyrim and American Horror Story. I've already talked plenty on the former-you can expect even more Skyrim chat in our Game of the Year podcast in a few weeks-but I really haven't talked too much about just how incredible American Horror Story is. Having finally got around to finishing the finale earlier tonight, I've decided this show needs a video game. If Buffy, X-Files, and The Walking Dead can get one, this one deserves one too.It seems as if the series was created with the idea of a video game adaptation in mind. Think about it: it's a horror story anthology that appeals to all flavors of people. Weird folks have plenty to enjoy, horror fans have a few scares and an incredibly creepy atmosphere, kinkier people have the Gimp scenes and more than a few brief shots of Dylan McDermott's muscular bum, and gamers with short attention spans w ill like the episodic approach. If this sounds like your type of thing, I suggest joining me after the jump so we can chat about it. Come on, it's safe on the other side, all you have to do is hit that little Read More button. Do it, you know you want to.Let's start off with my first idea: the Alan Wake approach. Alan Wake was a story-driven horror/thriller with a tense atmosphere, a focus on its story/characters, and it was broken up into episodes, not unlike a television show.This is perfect for American Horror Story.Each episode would play out like an episode of the TV series, complete with its own story arch and a little twist at the end to make you antsy for the next episode. It would also be more of a third person game, like the parts in Heavy Rain where you were actually controlling your character (minus the god awful controls). Oh wait, I just thought of something even better. Bare with me here, it's really just best if you keep your limbs inside the boat as I guide us down this river of random thoughts and ideas.Alan Wake's style might be a little too gamey for some Horror Story fans, so that leaves us with another option: the cinematic style. By this I mean something like Heavy Rain or Telltale's work on the Back to the Future and Jurassic Park games. Ignoring for a second how awful the latter was, a more cinematic take could help the game retain the show's unpredictable nature.I like to think of it being similar to Heavy Rain, only it's broken up into episodes. That way the story can be told and the player doesn't miss out on all the things that can be missed in a less linear game where you could wander off and miss little details. It could also mean your actions could change the direction the story takes. Maybe Violet doesn't take all those pills, or Tate actually does manage to outrun the ghosts of his victims that chased him on Halloween night, or maybe you could just play as the maid and clean stuff through mini-games.Wait, somet hing's happening. Maid mini-game yes.I want a God of War style sex mini game, only this time it's from the woman's prospective. I want to play as the maid so I can lure unsuspecting men into the house, have my way with them, then right when they're about to finish, BOO! I was actually an old chick the whole time! Achievement unlocked.So I have a few questions for you. First off, does the idea of a well done American Horror Story video game sound good to you, and if one was to get made, should it be in the style of Alan Wake, Heavy Rain, or something else entirely?Once you've cast your vote (I'm expecting 100% in the Hell yes category), tell me why you chose what you did in the comments below!

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A story about DTM Printed t shirts - Shopping - Clothing

There are no men in this world who denies attention & everyone needs love from opposite sex. But those will come with extra cost.

Don't disturb me is kind of simple clip art design t shirt inspired by Hindi Movie called "Pyaar ka Punchnama". There are lot of Desi movies which talks about a girl and a boy falling in love. They both stay together. The movie ends. No one tells the story after this. "Pyaar ka Punchnama" movie exactly did that. Below are some cool dialogues from the movie

A girl and a guy falls in love. They both stay together. The movie ends. No one tells the story after this. I'll tell you the story after that.

What relationship? And what happiness?

Relationship means enter into it with your own happiness. After that all you have to

Worry about her happiness, her birthday, her dog's birthday, her New Year. No one can make these girls happy. A happy woman is a myth.

If the guy doesn't hug the girl two days there's a problem.

If he hugs her then again she says you are cheap.

Girls don't get tired from shopping.

First cushions and now curtains. Cushions didn't match the curtains, so she bought more cushions. I have so many mugs that if I sell them I can bear my life for a month.

This F*** mobile phones

I am working in the office and she calls. As soon as I answer the phone, I tell her I cannot talk to her. Is it so difficult to understand?

What will happen if you talk to me for two minutes? If I talk to you for two minutes, what will you gain?

I won't be able to talk to you properly. Then if I disconnect the phone

Without saying 'I love you'. She starts her melodrama.

This mobile phone has irritated me a lot. It has made my life miserable.

It is like a noose to me. Did you see their ads?

1 paisa per second. So, keep calling. If the price is less, how much can a person talk?

I am working in the office; I get a SMS which says "I love you." So, I reply to her 'I love you too.' Then I keep getting SMS one after other. If I don't reply for two SMSs. I get a call immediately. If you don't answer the phone, you get a message in 10 minutes reads "I don't think it is working anymore". In 10 minutes it goes from 'Babu, I love you' to 'It's not working anymore.'

I am telling you. You cannot discuss anything with a woman. Because, they call it a discussion but any discussion with a woman is an argument. Based on this story we have designed DTM printed t shirts.

And finally after this entire act when you try to get out of that mess they cry and made the situation such that again you get into trap. Few will really come out of this - Don't disturb me design for those experienced boys.

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Porn - Here's How To Get Your Woman To Watch "Naughty Movies" With You (Kinky Sex) - Relationships - Sexuality

Here Is How To Get Your Woman To Watch "Naughty Movies" With You

There is definitely something kinky and a little naughty about you and your woman "getting it on"; whilst you are watching other people "get it on" in a porn movie.

And women love to GET NAUGHTY - so this can be powerful.

The way to get your woman to watch porn with you is to choose the type of porn you watch with her very carefully.

You see, we guys tend to be happy watching any porn, as long as the woman (or women) is very attractive. We also tend to like to watch Lesbian porn.

However, your woman is a bit more picky when it comes to what porn will turn her on. Here is what most women want to watch:

They want to watch porn with a STORY LINE. And they want that story line to be a little naughty, a little wrong and a little perverse.

We guys don't mind if the porn actors just start having sex as soon as the scene starts.

BUT - your woman wants to see FOREPLAY in the porn that you watch with her; just like she wants you to give her foreplay before you have sex with her (you do give your woman foreplay, right?).

So, let me really HELP YOU OUT by giving you some ideas of the type of porn and story lines that your woman will probably find a turn on:

- Naughty school girl being called to the headmaster's office and then getting "punished" for being a bad girl

- Anything very artistic (women like those movies where the guys where masks and the women where leather cat-suits where the crotch unzips and everything else stays on)

- A woman takes her car in for a service, then realises she has no money to pay - so she pays the workers at the garage in "another way"

Do you get this?

Do you see how your woman's mind works?

Women want the porn with the REALLY NAUGHTY story lines that slowly build up to sex. They do not want to watch the porn that jumps straight into sex because they find it boring.

So, if you want to get your woman to watch porn with you...

- Use it rarely (once every 6 to 8 weeks). Do not start trying to watch porn with your woman every night

- Choose porn that your woman will like (clever, naughty, slightly perverse, "wrong" story lines)

- Make sure you are giving your woman incredible sex BEFORE you start to introduce porn into your bedroom. If you aren't giving your woman vaginal and multiple orgasms every time you have sex with, get that happening before you think about porn.

More than anything - your woman wants you to give her ORGASMS. Remember that.

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What Will Happen If I Don't Give My Husband Sex After He Cheated And Had An Affair? - Relationships

I often hear from women who have no desire to resume sexual relationships with this husband after he has had an affair. Some are acting out of anger and others want to teach their husband a lesson. Withholding sex can be a very deliberate decision made as a way to punish the husband for his actions.

I heard from a wife who said: "the idea of having sex with my husband right now is not at all appealing to me. Because when I think about being intimate with him, I think about him being intimate with her and that is the biggest turn off in the world. One of my friends has recently gone through this and she has told me that eventually, my desire will return. She said that I will want to have sex with him again because this is part of the recovery process and it will bring us closer together when we start to reconcile. Frankly, I have no intention of having sex with him again for a very long time. I feel like if I withhold sex, he will be truly sorry for what he has done. My friend says this is not a good idea. Is she right? Should I stop having sex with him because he had an affair?"

This is not an answer that I could give to the wife. This is very individual decision. However having been through this myself, I do understand that after infidelity, the idea of sex is usually not one that is all that appealing. Many wives feel pressured to have sex because they worry that if they are not fulfilling this need within my husband, then he'll just go back to the other woman or find some other woman who will fulfill this need. I don't think it's a good idea to allow yourself to feel pressured to be intimate. Frankly, the sex isn't all that good when this happens and usually a lot more resentment will build up as a result. The wife feels as if she's only an object and that her feelings don't matter. This isn't good for either spouse.

Why I Don't Think That Withholding Sex For Punishment Is A Good Idea: On the flip side of the coin, many wives will take the opposite approach and will refuse to have sex with their husbands. While I completely agree that you shouldn't be intimate unless you want to, withholding this part of your marriage as a means to punish your husband can harm the relationship as much as the affair. Intimacy can be a way to reconnect and to begin to reestablish the trust. If you hold this aspect of your relationship back or remove it all together, it may delay or thwart your healing and you will probably worry that your husband will remain faithful. The bottom line for me is that you should allow your feelings and your intuition to be your guide. You will likely know when the time is right and you shouldn't compromise your wishes for anyone else. You are allowed to move at your own pace.

Have Sex Again When You Are Ready. You Should Set Your Own Pace: One of the most common questions that I hear is when is the right time to start resuming sex. There is no set answer for every couple. I usually tell people that they will know when the time is right. Usually, this time comes after healing has begun. It usually doesn't happen until the wife begins to see some remorse and rehabilitation. If you rush it, the experience might be an awkward or painful one. But if you wait until the time is right for both of you, then you'll usually have a good experience that ultimately helps in your healing.

There is no reason to rush this or to delay it. Allow yourself to go at a natural pace, moving forward only when you are comfortable or sure. Intimacy is a very special thing between two people. It's important to safe guard it rather than to manipulate it. So to answer the question posed, I don't believe that you should rush having sex again or allow yourself to be pressured into doing something that you are not ready to do. With that said, if you know the time is right and you are comfortable, then I don't feel that it's a good idea to without intimacy simply to teach your husband a lesson or to punish him. This can hurt your marriage, make you both resentful, and delay your healing.

I was in no hurry to have sex with my husband after his affair. I trusted myself to know when the time was right. My husband was probably not that thrilled about this, but he understood. Waiting until we had begun our recovery was the right choice because I felt respected and in control and the outcome was a good one because I didn't feel pressured or resentful. It it helps, you can read the whole story on my blog at

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