If you're new to learning how to talk to women, you must be able to nail the sex talk. Some men hardly ever talk dirty when in conversation with a girl because they are scared of turning her off with explicit talk. Sex talk is very important for a girl's arousal. You can move things along and progress from being friends to being lovers if you get her in the mood faster.
Here are three tips to increase your comfort level when you're talking to a girl about sex.
How to Improve Your Sex Talk - 3 Tips
1. Control Your Emotions
Talking to a girl about sex may get you in the mood faster than her. Control your emotions and urges, and concentrate on increasing her arousal. Stuttering and being unable to continue with the sex story you are telling is the conversational equivalent of premature ejaculation, which is a turn off. If you're starting to feel uncomfortable with the way the talk is progressing, in that you are getting too excited, take a deep breath and clear your head.
2. Talk About What You Want to Do
Most women get turned on more when the talk is all about the things that can contribute to their pleasure. Being the dominant entity in sex will work to your benefit, unless the girl mentioned that she's into dominatrix-inspired sex. You can talk about going down on her.
Saying "I want to do you from behind" is also a good example of how to describe what sex position you want to start with. You have to come up with your own ideas for your dirty talk, but mix it up and be original. You can ask her where her ticklish spots are and concentrate on creating a sex story with that information in mind.
3. Switch to Your Sex Voice
Get a recorder and practice talking dirty. When you listen to your voice, observe some of the things you can improve on, like tonality and comfort level. The sounds you make when talking dirty, even the way you laugh, need to be sexy. If you notice that you're talking too fast, slow down. If you tend to hesitate before mentioning some explicit words, get yourself comfortable about using those words or don't use them at all.
Your voice has a psychological effect on the girl. When you use a nasty sounding voice, a different sexual experience comes to mind. For example, when you say "I like it rough, can you handle that?", you can shift to your nasty voice. Another example is using a nastier tone when using really dirty words for anatomical features. When you're talking about foreplay, you can switch to a much sweeter version of your tone.
Sex talk is something that should come naturally when you're aroused. What we talked about here is how to control the sex talk so that you can increase her arousal more. If you learn how to talk to women in a sexual manner, it won't be long before you master the art of affecting her psychological state after a few minutes of conversation.
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